How to: From Genealogy to a Family Book

March 19, 2023 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Genealogy

Over seven years ago, when I retired, I stared at the boxes and files filed with over 35 years of genealogical research. It was time to digitize everything, so I did that for about three years. It takes about three hours a day.

The family trees and research are on Ancestry with a backup on my computer using Family Tree Maker software. I was an early customer of Ancestry, all the way back to the early 1990s. When I decided to back up what was online, I chose Family Tree Maker shortly after that. Their track record was already good. I trusted them.

I stayed with both because Ancestry offered an extensive sample, and the Family Tree Maker’s track record was still excellent. Plus, it would require too much work to change now. I had too much invested.

While inputting it, I couldn’t help wondering whether anyone in my family would actually read it. Except for one daughter, I feared no one else would take the time to search through the “this ancestor begat that ancestor” information.

So what can one do to ensure one’s offspring understands their heritage?

It occurred to me that people will read narrative stories before reading basic research, so I wrote a book.

Because I needed help, I found Lynn Palermo and her Family History Writing Studio. Her online courses teach amateur genealogists how to write about one’s family in a narrative nonfiction way.

https://www.familyhistorywritingstudio.com/

I signed up for a 28-day challenge held in February several years ago. It turned out to be just what I needed. The challenge came with daily directives, such as identifying the theme and focus of what I wished to write. She immediately made me realize I needed to focus on one or two ancestors instead of entire families.

Next, it helped me organize and gather the resources I already had. In addition, it helped me understand the resources and research needed. She just completed one in February.

https://www.familyhistorywritingstudio.com/family-history-writing-challenge/

Later, for example, she requested a short story about our chosen ancestor, and the challenge participants critiqued each other’s work. It became a daily exercise that got each of us into the habit of writing.

The result was a book series entitled Palmetto Pioneers, a three-book story. I chose one family member, Mary Adeline Walker, my third-great-grandmother, on my maternal side. She came to territorial Florida in 1829 and settled with her parents and grandparents near Monticello, Florida. They were yeoman farmers who primarily raised cattle.

During the 28-day challenge, I focused on my family in my home county. I had been told they were among the first settlers of this area of Florida, but there were too many family lines. I descend from the Hamricks, McSwains, Rodgers, Wheelers, Lightseys, Andrews, Wilsons, Carters, and Walkers. All arrived in Jefferson County, Florida, before the Civil War.

I narrowed the list to the Walkers because they first arrived in 1829. They came to this county as several Walker families.

I chose Mary because she is the keystone for the distinct lines of the family from which I descended. Her daughter, an Andrews, married a Lightsey, who married a Hamrick. My mother is a Hamrick.

All I knew about Mary, though, was her marriage. It required much more research to prove her parents. Until the 1850 census, the enumerator did not ask for the names of other household members, so she is not listed by name in the 1830 and 1840 censuses. She married in 1843 and moved out. However, there is a girl her age in each of the two earlier censuses; and I could not find a girl her age living with any other Walker family. There are other secondary sources used in a proof argument in the book.

Mary’s parentage wasn’t the only research needed. It took over two more years of research, including over 120 digitized issues of Monticello’s first newspaper from 1859 to 1861. This process was slow but valuable. Information gleaned from these issues changed the story. I had to rewrite an entire chapter of the second book.

Because I was writing a narrative account, the story needed much more than its characters’ primary and secondary resources. I realized I needed a timeline, not only for local happenings but also for state and national. I developed all three timelines and used them to fill in the backstory, those events happening to the family at each point.

For example, during the Second Seminole Indian war, Jefferson County suffered many massacres. One was in Mary’s community. History Geo showed that the massacred family lived next door, close enough for the family to hear. Local diaries and journals described the fear of children and adults. One log told about a Carter cousin killed.

While researching the family for the book, I realized that Mary and her husband may be Florida Pioneers. Thus, I began the Florida Pioneer Descendent Certificate process. At first, this task seemed daunting, but the Florida State Genealogical Society had an excellent system to follow. A warning, though. If I had looked too far ahead at the amount of work to be done, I wouldn’t have started it. But I went through each part step-by-step without looking ahead, and before I realized it, I was done.

When I turned in my initial application, it needed more. Kathy Stickney contacted me, and she became my mentor. She was on the committee that helped those who wished to complete their certificates. I accomplished it several years ago.

A Series named Palmetto Pioneers

I entitled the first book, “The Emigrants, which begins when Mary was seven and still living in South Carolina. It covers the roads we believe they took between Colleton District and Monticello, Florida. It is also a bit of a history lesson, describing why these areas had recently opened.

Determining when they left South Carolina and arrived in Jefferson County required several resources. Later, census records showed when their children were born and where. Using these dates and places provided a good idea when they made the trip. Common sense showed they probably made the trip in the late fall or early winter. These were farmers. They would have wanted to stay for the last harvest and be in place in the new land by the time of planting. With all this information, we felt confident they left around early October 1829 and arrived by the end of the year, with plenty of time to raise their cabins and get their first crops into the ground.

To determine what route they took, I studied maps from that era. The family did not use some roads because they traveled with livestock. According to journals and diaries from that era, the road down the east coast and the Coffee trail did not have enough water for the cattle. I studied other roads, weighing their distance and ease of travel, before choosing the most likely route.

The first book ends when Mary marries and begins having children. She married a widower born and raised in the District of Columbia, when Washington, DC, was rebuilt after the British burned the Capitol and other buildings during the War of 1812. His father was a joiner in the carpentry business there.

Another milestone of the book’s ending, though, is statehood. The book carries the reader through when her father and husband vote in Florida’s first statewide election. For this story, their day began early because they had to ride 8 miles into town for the event. Because it was spring, a busy time on any farm, I felt certain Mary’s father did not come into town the day before.

When I began the book and was well into ending it, I thought I was working on one book. It wasn’t until my 94-year-old distant cousin read it for family content. He said, “Cindy, I think this is two books.” He kept the chapters I sent him and placed them in a notebook. It required two large notebooks. That is when I knew I had written a series.

The book is self-published by Amazon, and it was easier to publish than I imagined. It is available on Amazon as an e-book, paperback, and hardback. Because I felt the first book was over-priced, I have split the second part in half again. Hopefully, the next two will be a cheaper read.

The book has an extensive bibliography in the back, and the e-version can be word searched for any person, place, or event.

Though my primary purpose was to write a book for my descendants, I always had in mind two more secondary goals. I love my state and my county, and it concerns me that my neighboring citizens do not understand its rich history. I meant these books to provide anyone, whether kin, a look into how this wonderful state was settled.

FAN Club Research & Family History Writing

February 21, 2023 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Genealogy

I blogged earlier about location research, but another type of research can help you drill further into a person’s or family’s life. It is called researching a person’s FAN Club. I’ll use my main character Mary as a model.

Mary’s records included census records from 1830 in Jefferson County to 1870. I also found marriage records, tax records, and several land records. These helped me determine where she lived and traveled, but there are more profound clues that can help one paint a broader picture. For example, who witnessed these events and filed for a marriage license just before or after hers? Who married her?

Laura Andrews Lightsey, daughter of Mary

Census records can show us who their neighbors were. Who else lived in their community? Land records can help one tell how far away that person lived? Who witnessed their land purchases? Who purchased land on the same day? Who voted, and who voted next or immediately before in line. These people are their FAN Club (their friends, associates, and neighbors). Many of these people may be related to them, though they may not initially appear to be.

Elizabeth Shown Mills named the FAN club, which can also be called cluster research. In short, it is a network of people to whom a person connects. It was imperative to research Mary because no definitive records show who her parents are. I had to look to others around her to find the answer.

For example, her father and her husband traveled together to vote back to back in Florida’s first statewide election. Her brother Henry and her husband traveled together to Tallahassee and bought adjoining land on the same day from the US government. Almost all of her children named at least one child after her father, one of which named his son Jesse Walker Andrews, using her father’s surname, too. Several of her Walker family members named their children after her husband.

FAN research was also used to determine Mary’s mother’s maiden name. Though less robust, there is one secondary document with her maiden name listed, but the informant never knew her personally. The document is dated more than forty years after Elizabeth died.

However, using FAN club research, some people lived nearby, both in South Carolina and in Florida, who shared this maiden surname.
Numerous Wilsons attended their church in South Carolina. Also, in Jefferson County, a lady less than a quarter mile away in the northern part of the Elizabeth community shares the same surname and could be a sister. Both Mary’s mother and this woman came to Florida from the same community in South Carolina at the same time. Both their husbands are descendants of Walkers, too. This and other information make a strong case that Mary’s mother was a Wilson before she married.

This additional research can provide clues that your ancestor‘s research failed to do. Granted, it is much more work, but it can help you break through your brick wall.

Using FAN club or cluster research, one can rely upon indirect clues and a preponderance of evidence to build a case instead of relying on primary evidence, which is often unavailable.

The more I learned about Mary–who lived with or near her and interacted with her family–the more I learned about Mary herself.

To learn more, please click on the link below.

https://www.evidenceexplained.com/content/quicklesson-11-identity-problems-fan-principle/

A Timeline Can Make Your Writing Better

February 6, 2023 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Genealogy, Palmetto Pioneers

Since I published the book, I’ve had numerous requests for information on how I prepared. Writing a family history book, especially one that is narrative, required research and ways to analyze the information found.

I spent over two years researching the book. I gathered my main character’s information, reviewed what I already had, and searched for her FAN Club (her friends, associates, and neighbors). Still, making a timeline was one of the most essential parts of this research. It included dates, events, places, and occupations.

In the end, I had several different timelines: one for the family (dates of births, religious dates, marriages, deaths, etc.), one for local events (Monticello & Jefferson County), one for state events (Florida), and one for national. There were two more for the Civil War and for the Second Seminole Indian War. I added nothing to a timeline without a good reference, and I immediately added the reference to my bibliography.

I used timelines to illustrate how things changed over time and to draw connections between the people and events. I also used them to check my work, especially the chronological events. Sometimes, it helped me add more dialogue since it is obvious the residents of a town would converse about important changes happening to them.

My timelines brought together elements of my character’s history, the people they may have known, the places they may have frequented, and the events that might have brought them to town.

The timelines were formatted with bullets for the dates and events. Sometimes, it was for a full date and sometimes only a year was given.

I eventually did a spreadsheet for the Civil War, showing the men from the family who fought in it, their units, and the places they fought. I could add a line anytime I needed, and I could sort the date, event, or place. This was especially helpful. I added their regiments and companies and could sort them according to such. This way, I could see them as a unit for questions like who else served with them, who was wounded in a particular battle, and who didn’t return home.

Initially, I didn’t cite sources for the individual events within the timelines, but I realized later I should have. It would have made it easier for me to check a reference when I noticed that the order of some events was duplicated. For example, I discovered conflicting dates for events in the Indian and Civil Wars. They conflicted because people’s memories aren’t always the same. A person’s diary written on the spot is better than a person’s memoir, especially when that person’s memoir was written fifty years after the event.

When Location Becomes Their Story

December 10, 2022 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Books, Following Old Trails, Genealogy, Palmetto Pioneers

One of the most important parts of writing the book “Palmetto Pioneers” was research. Studying the location of my chosen ancestor became an important next step.

But let’s take a step back. I didn’t begin looking at the locations. I began reviewing what I already knew about my main character, Mary. I went back to my original research, first to my paper files, then my online files, such as her family’s Ancestry tree.

This review identified all the places she had lived or traveled. This was easy because Mary lived in Colleton District, South Carolina and traveled by wagon with her parents and extended family to Jefferson County, Florida. It appears she lived there for the rest of her life, so I only had three locations to research, but one of which was fluid.

I asked questions. Where was she married (Jefferson County, Florida marriage record)? When and where were her children born (census records which showed when and where she lived)? Where and when did she die? I also looked for land, court, and probate records.

An important part of this process was making a timeline for the family. It had three columns—one for the event, one for the date, and another for the place. It helped tremendously when trying to find events or write about them in the correct order they happened.

It also showed flaws in the research. Not everyone’s memory is the same for any event, and people make mistakes when recording important dates. Timelines helped me find the discrepancies and then helped me either fix the discrepancies or explain them in the book.

These earlier steps, used to analyze Mary and those around her, brought me to the next part of my research.

Where did these events take place? And what did I know about them?

Using census records for her father and the other Walker heads of household in the family, we know she came from South Carolina, most likely Colleton District, southwest of Charleston. But what did I really know about that area? This became an important question for the next step.

I began with the courthouse in Colleton County, but before making a trip up there, I researched the courthouse itself and where I could expect to find records. Right away, I discovered that though the courthouse itself did not burn during the Civil War, its records did. Because they were on the path of Sherman, they sent their records for safekeeping to their capital, Columbia. After marching through Colleton County and leaving its courthouse untouched, Sherman made a beeline to Columbia and burned the capitol and Colleton’s records there.

However, I learned that there are land records in neighboring counties that show lands near the county lines. They reflect who owned the land across the line. Barnwell County’s records for Lightsey lands showed the Walkers were their neighbors in Colleton County. I also learned that people have donated records from their families to a local Genealogy Room, which was in the same building as Colleton’s extension service. There is also a genealogy room at the county library.

Roadtrip!

This led to my favorite pastime—travel. Add a trip to a genealogical site, and for me it is a match made in heaven. I chose one of the old routes, certainly not an interstate highway, and I drove from Monticello to Walterboro, wondering if these families may have used a trail or road nearby.

Family Search Wiki, Colonial Roads in America

Using all this information, I made several trips to Walterboro, the county seat, and to the location of the Walker lands near Carter’s Ford on the Little Salkehatchie River. This location research was invaluable to the story, especially when the family still lived in South Carolina. It was wonderful to walk where they had walked almost two hundred years before, but why did they leave? Studying their first location could help provide answers.

The Florida State Genealogical Society featured a speaker last month during their Poolside Chat series. Diana Elder suggested in her presentation entitled, “Locality, Locality, Locality: Putting Your Ancestors in Their Place,” that one should create a “locality guide.” I wish I had listened to this about six years ago. It would have saved me later headaches.

I should have created a “Colleton County Locality Guide,” with a section for “Background Information,” showing “Quick Facts” such as laws that changed the economic environment for the family and their dates, purchases of property, natural disasters in their area, when South Carolina became a colony, and so forth. One event I found was the building of a nearby railroad, which might have changed the family’s mind about moving since the railroad provided better opportunities to reach new markets.

In the Locality Guide, “General Collections” shows where to find information as well as “Online Research Guides” and “Maps and their Dates”. Here, one records maps that show the changes in state and county lines. Within Colleton County, they divided the county into parishes. The family lived in the St. Bartholomew Parish, but did they always? The guide is used to collect all the information found about a location.

The Walker Migration Route

Another important research project was trying to find how they got to Jefferson County, Florida, from Colleton District, South Carolina. I knew the names of several trails between the two areas, and I began my research quest by studying those trails.

Later, though, I discovered that the best place to begin this research was Family Search Wiki. Simply enter the words “migration” and the location to find the different trails and roads in an area. It gives you a list of trails and roads plus maps and other resources.

Usually, I began by googling the name of a town, river, road, trail, or anything else on which I needed more information. It usually sent me to other sources, such as maps, gazetteers, trails, and so forth.

Several gazetteers became important. You can find them using Family Search Wiki. Search for “gazetteer”(singular) and then enter the location you wish to find. We can find the digitized ones this way, but I found some that were not digitized in the bibliographies of other historical works. Always check their sources. It will surprise you what you uncover.

Maps became very important to the story. They showed me how they got to Florida.

I began with trails, because they built most of the older roads on old Indian or military trails. I found some on old maps, especially the earliest maps. William Dollarhide has done much work in identifying old trails throughout the nation. His books were very important to my work. I also used diaries and journals to learn what they saw on the trails and roads when they migrated south. In the book, what the Walkers saw on their journey south was in those diaries and journals.

Something I did not use is the Geographic Names Information System (GNIS) on the United States Geographical Survey (USGS) website. I discovered it well after I had finished my research. Here you can search for the names of trails, and also towns, post offices, lakes, and rivers nearby.

Once I had sufficient information about the trails and roads available, I analyzed them for the families’ most likely route. Because they drove a foundation herd of cattle with them, I cut two of the more popular routes from the list—not enough water.

Why Florida?

The next step was to study her final home. Why did the family choose Florida? What else was out there? Newspapers seemed to be a good place to start, and there were Charleston papers that they may have read. Mary’s father and uncles were educated men. I discovered a wealth of information about moving to Florida, some of it from the South Carolina papers in their era.

I also had records already in my files. Federal censuses showed us when they made the move. Some children were born in South Carolina, and others in Florida. Land records showed us when the land was available for the family to buy. The Walkers came here before the land was available in the area they settled. They probably squatted on that land and made improvements that gave them the first dibs.

An early probate record for her grandfather told a story about how hard it was to live with local diseases such as malaria. Court records showed when they made their trips eight miles away to the county seat. All of this was important because vital records mostly did not exist. There were no death records or birth records in territorial Florida. There were only church records and Bible records, but few.

I mentioned a boundary issue earlier while they were in South Carolina. Though the boundary did not change, some in Colleton County were lucky to live near the boundary of another county, whose records did not burn. Atlas of Historical County Boundaries is a website by The Newberry Library which shows how a county’s boundary changed. It also shows state boundaries, too.

When the Walker family moved to Florida, it appears another group of Walkers moved just north of the state line in Georgia—an area less than ten miles away. We know from DNA they are kin to each other and from census records; they lived in Colleton District, too. We could never determine if they made the trip down together, though.

https://historygeo.com/

Later, Historygeo.com showed me who first bought the lands next to them once they bought land and settled in Jefferson County. History Geo even showed me how far away two massacred families lived during the Second Seminole Indian War. Using the sound of a gunshot, I determined which of them the family could hear from their home. I decided all of this using locality research.

Finally, I spent a lot of time studying the history of Jefferson County. It provided clues why they came when they did. For example, our state government only recently formed Jefferson County. It was less than two years old. Its land was just becoming available for sale from the state.

Historical books for a county can be important. Being from the county, I am a local and I knew which books to use. However, the National Genealogical Society has a series of books entitled “NGS Research in the States.” There is one for Florida, and it tells you where to go to find information on any county in the state. I also visited Family Search Wiki to look at their state timelines. It provided me a beginning for my in-house state events timeline.

In Jefferson County, the WPA did a research project in the 1930s, and they generated a book. We call it the Green Book. It includes first-hand stories from the children of these early settlers. A University of Florida professor wrote another county history book in 1976. Contracted by the Jefferson County Historical Association, it is an excellent source. Add to these the various diaries and journals kept, and they provided plentiful information about what Monticello and Jefferson County looked like when the Walkers arrived.

Jefferson County Courthouse, replaced in early 1900s

Locality research was vital to the book and an understanding of who these people were and what happened to them. It helped me determine who they were in South Carolina, how they got to Florida, and what impact they had on their new community once they arrived. Location research provided a wealth of information. I could not have written “Palmetto Pioneers” without it.

What Did it Take to be a Florida Pioneer

December 2, 2022 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Books, Genealogy

What was Florida like when the first white settlers got here? We can only imagine the hazards—the native population, alligators, mosquitoes, and poisonous arachnids. Add to this a list of climate changes—hurricanes, droughts, tornadoes, lightning strikes, and the economics of settling a new land—its unknown character.

One man, not from Florida, said in 1829, “no man would immigrate to Florida–no not from hell itself!” Obviously, he was wrong; because these first settlers came, and now, almost two hundred years later, they are still coming.

In my family, came seven-year-old Mary Adeline Walker with her parents; and later her grandparents followed. She is my third great-grandmother, and she came to Jefferson County, Florida, in 1829. We have important records and resources about her, but no diaries or journals from her or her immediate family. There are diaries and journals from other people, though, who lived in this area during territorial Florida.

Using Mary as my primary character, I wrote a book entitled “Palmetto Pioneers: The Emigrants.” It is one of a three-part series. The final book ends in Monticello during reconstruction, after the Civil War. The first book begins when Mary’s family migrates from South Carolina. They brought with them on the journey a foundation herd of cattle.

They primarily dealt with cattle, but like most good farmers, they varied their livestock and crops to diversify their risks. Mary is one of eleven children, primarily boys, a real plus for the family’s operations, which were in Jefferson County.

The book, written in a genre called narrative nonfiction, may be classified in a sub-genre called family history writing. It uses elements of creative writing to present a factual, true story. It uses literary techniques usually reserved for writing fiction, such as dialog, scene-setting, and narrative arcs. But I rooted it in facts. No part of the story is made up or fabricated unless the author signals otherwise.

A clear example of this type of genre is the book, “1776”, by David McCullough. McCullough extensively researched this subject using both American and British archives to create a powerful drama with extraordinary narrative vitality.

For “Palmetto Pioneers,” the territorial Florida time period was extensively researched, and a bibliography follows at the end of the book. I divided it into time periods such as “Life in South Carolina,” “The Migration,”, “Life in Territorial Florida,” and “The Indian Wars.” I limited their life in South Carolina to reflecting on why they left and what they needed to bring, but it doesn’t tell the reader. Instead, it shows these events.

In the first book are scenes that reflect the realities of living in Florida. The reader sees what Florida was like through Mary’s eyes. The reader can also see her and her husband’s place in Florida history.

There is no family tree in this book, but it references an online Ancestry tree that is public and accessible to anyone without a membership. Many of Mary’s brothers and sisters, as well as her own children, left Monticello and settled in many other parts of Florida, such as DeSoto, Citrus, Putnam, Marion, Bradford, Madison, Suwannee, Levy, Indian River, Brevard, Dade, Duval, Okeechobee, and many more counties. Two families went to Texas, and their descendants still live there.

One can find the first book of the series on Amazon, and there are soft-cover copies at two businesses in Monticello, Florida—Oh Happy Days Gifts and Vintage Antiques. On Amazon, the books are almost $25 for hardcover and softcover but only $9.99 for the e-book.

Why You Should Teach Your Kids About Their Family History

November 1, 2017 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Family Life, Genealogy

According to research Knowing Your Family History May Be Good For Your Kids

“Children who know stories about relatives who came before them show higher levels of emotional well-being…”, according to Emory University researchers. In other words, kids who know more about their family history are inclined to turn out to be more emotionally resilient than children who don’t. You can read more about the research here.

A child who feels like they are part of something larger than themselves—such as a family—gives kids a greater sense of their “intergenerational self.” Some of us Baby Boomers had a large dose of this when we were growing up. We grew up with grandparents nearby, but today fewer children have this opportunity. Their grandparents are states if not countries away.

I grew up next door to my grandmother on my father’s side. This is me with her and my father.

October is Family History Month, and what a great time to teach your kids about their family. It is a wonderful time to get outdoors, and it is also a great time to visit a battlefield, a cemetery, or an old family swimming hole.

My family loved Fanning Springs.

Below are a few suggestions on how to make sure your children learn about their family history!

1. Take a road trip back to your old home place, or your hometown, or plan a trip if your hometown is too far away. While there, tell them about what it was like growing up there. Share the funny, the embarrassing, and the sweet stories that you remember.

Hannah meeting her grandmother’s first cousin. He told her stories about her grandmother from when they were children.

My husband and I just spent a week with our oldest grandson, and Chuck took him to where he lived before he went to college. Chuck also took him by one of his favorite fishing places, Sebastian Inlet in Florida; and the house where he lived when Lucas’s father was born. For Chuck visiting those places made his memories flow.

2. Share stories about growing up in your decade. What was it like? How was it different from today?

Take your children by a favorite swimming hole that you visited as a child and explain its importance in your life. I took my children to the Wacissa River where there is still an old rope spring and reminisced about how important this place was to us when there were no nearby swimming pools for our use.

Rainbow Springs was also a family favorite, and it became one of my niece’s favorite, too.

3. Visit the graves of an ancestor, maybe your grandparents, or it might even be your parents. Tell them stories about your memories of their lives.

I have fond memories of walking through my hometown’s city graveyard with my grandmother who was 58 years older than me. She pointed out graves of people in her life and told me stories about them. Some were amazing stories.

4. Visit the old school where you grew up and tell them how it was different from theirs.

We visited where her grandmother went to elementary school.

5. Visit a war monument, and tell them about your mother, grandmother, father or grandfather who fought in one of the Middle Eastern wars, Vietnam, Korean or one of the world wars.

My father, uncles, and 2rd great grandfathers are commemorated here in brick pavers.

Several years ago I took each of my nieces on what I called an ‘Old Florida’ vacation. Included in the itinerary though were several visits to old family homes, family picnic favorites, vacation sights, and cemeteries.

My niece visited an old favorite family picnic area on the Suwannee River.

They learned about their grandparents who passed away when the girls were very young. One of their grandmothers was my mother, and I told them the stories that she told me about our family.

It was a wonderful trip, and I got to know my nieces well during our time together. I was determined that they should know about their family and about their home state, but in the process I made memories with my nieces that they will carry with them for the rest of their lives.

Me and my youngest niece on a boat ride in Ft. Lauderdale.

So plan a trip with your children; or if you are as old as I am, your grandchildren. A Family History trip even if it is only for an afternoon can create strong family bonds that will last a lifetime.

A Family History Book Review: The Smallest Tadpole’s War

September 7, 2017 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Books, Genealogy

Writing one’s family history so one’s family reads it? Now there’s a quandary.

Like most amateur genealogists I have boxes of family research and a fear that when I die they may as well bury the boxes of family history with me. Who would take the time to read through it?

This is a sponsored post that contains affiliate links. I received compensation in exchange for writing this review.

Then again I didn’t want to do one of those genealogy books full of only names, dates, and places. Boring! Most people won’t take the time to learn about their family heritage this way either.

A Family History Book Done the Right Way

Diane Swearingen, though, solved that problem for her husband’s family. Her book “The Smallest Tadpole’s War in the Land of Mysterious Waters ” is historical fiction based on the life of his great-grandfather Thomas Swearingen.

Even better, though, is how she told the story. It is told in a way that benefits those of us not in her family because Thomas Swearingen’s story is symbolic of the settlers who first came to the state of Florida seeking better opportunities for themselves and their families.

The story begins with a marriage, a big move, and an adoption. Its point of view is through the eyes of Thomas’s adopted son. It follows through the lifetime of Thomas which includes territorial Florida, the Civil War, and reconstruction. Most of the story is set in Wakulla County with brief encounters in Gadsden, Leon and Jefferson Counties, all in North Florida, where Florida grew the fastest during this era.

The Wakulla County Courthouse, which was built during Thomas’s lifetime. It is standing today in Crawfordville, Florida,, Wakulla’s county seat. From the Florida Memory Collection.

The story is well documented and a page-turner. Also, I could not put the book down. I wanted to know what was happening to the characters as much as what happened in these areas during this time period. I grew up one county over, and my family goes back several generations there, too.

The book is a quick read, and I believe suited perfectly for middle schoolers as well as adults. It is good family reading. Purchase a copy through Amazon using the link below.

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The title itself, though long and tortuous is interesting. The smallest little tadpole is Florida, as described by a Civil War-era politician as being the ‘least important state swimming in the cesspool of secession’. It has double meaning because it is Thomas, too, who started out small himself, as a young man trying to make his way in life.

Mysterious waters is a translation of the name Wakulla, the county where most of the story took place. Wakulla County, located south of Tallahassee, is on the Gulf of Mexico.

From the Florida Memory Collection.

Do yourself a favor? If you want to know a little more about Florida’s history, read this book. This family history story does a great job of describing Florida when Florida was a little backwater tadpole in our great nation.

Wakulla’s beautiful Wakulla River is a spring fed clear water river that runs eventually into the Gulf of Mexico. Today, manatees swim up to winter in its spring. From the Florida Memory Collection.

Here’s My Top Five Genealogy e-Tools

May 19, 2017 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Genealogy

People my age often complain about electronic technology or as some call it, e-Tools. Like many of my peers, I too, worry about how much it changed our lives. Some of it is not for the good.

Photo by Pixabay

Television had its own problems and now video gaming and the constant checking of our social media makes all of us seem even more distracted and unconnected.

But I want to say that I cannot imagine living without my e-Tools.

I volunteer on Wednesdays at the Keystone Genealogy Library in my hometown. One of the ladies there has a cell phone that has these light tinkling angelic bells that sound off when her prayer circle is alerted.

We are used to them because they have gone off about three times over the years I’ve worked there. By the way, the room is only open on Wednesday and is volunteer run. Anyway, the other day the bells kept tingling and without checking she mentioned that her prayer circle must be busy today. Finally, she checked her messages and found out why.

A young person in our small community had a serious traffic accident on her way to work that morning, and everyone in the prayer circle was asked to pray for her. It was a serious accident, and the prayer group grew exponentially. What a wonderful thing electronic technology can be in our lives. We often grumble about the negatives, but we seldom talk about the positives.

For example, frankly, I would hate to go back to dealing with life without an electronic calendar. It makes my life simpler, and it truly helps me keep things straight. I simply click on meeting invites, and voila it is on my calendar in one click.

Because I have my calendar automatically alert me 15 minutes before any meeting, I am almost always on time. My doctor’s office sends me electronic links for my calendar. I simply click on the link, and it uploads to my calendar.

Facebook has been wonderful for keeping up with old friends, and I have figured out a way to keep myself from sitting down and vegging in front of it. Most of all, though, I love seeing all the photos of my grandchildren.

Texting is a wonderful way to keep up with immediate family, especially when getting ready to travel. My daughters, daughter-in-law and I texted back and forth for several days before our annual beach trip. We divided up the work of who would bring what.

Texting is also how my colleague’s prayer circle communicated. The person who set up the circle used an app.

Speaking of apps, I am learning Spanish using an app and working to get Chuck set up on an app called “Elevate”, which is for brain training. Chuck’s neuro doctor says that his problem isn’t dementia or Alzheimer’s and that he needs to retrain his brain to be more in the moment.

He needs to learn again how to focus and pay more attention. That is something I have trouble with myself. He and I both have a tendency to live in our heads.

Most of all though I cannot imagine how I ever got along doing genealogy research without technology. Here’s a list of five of the most important to me.

My Top Five

1. My IPad is the backbone of my genealogy research system. It keeps me organized. It not only has my calendar on it but even my entire genealogical trees. My notepad in my iPad is where I keep random notes, bits of research for later use, and even my grocery list. Evernote on iPad stores my research.

Photo from Pixabay

2. Speaking of Ancestry, I have an Ancestry app for viewing, updating, and organizing my family trees. My trees have over 15,000 names. I can also view my DNA results. And all of it goes with me as long as I bring my iPad.

3. The Evernote app mentioned earlier is where I store my research for the family book I’m writing, and OneNote is where I store random findings under the different family surnames. For example, I just found some super information about civil war hospitals. I stored it for later use under Military Research in Evernote. When I get ready to use it, I simply search for the word ‘civil war hospital’; and it reappears.

4. My TinyScanner app which works with the camera on my iPad or iPhone works like a charm. This one feature saves me more time in courthouses and libraries than one could ever imagine. I simply scan the documents I need. Now if I could just ever catch up downloading the photos into storage. Right now many are stored on my camera roll.

Photo from Pixabay

5. I read almost all my books and magazines online now. It is convenient because whatever I’m reading goes everywhere with me. I have kindle apps on my iPhone and my iPad. I have a subscription to Family Tree Magazine. I have books for research stored on my iBooks app, and many of those were free. I even found a Hamrick family e-book published around the 1920s stored there. I also use my iPad for tutorials when I need to learn how to do something new.

So as you can tell, I’ve embraced the electronic world; and my life is easier for it. Better yet, though, I wonder how ever did the genealogy world get along without the digital age.

I remember because I’ve been doing genealogy research for over forty years, but I wouldn’t want to go back to those “good old days”.

So What if I Lose My iPad?

Yesterday, I lost my iPad. I couldn’t find it anywhere. My calendar, my books, my magazines, my research, everything was on it.

No need to panic though, because everything was backed up. Best of all, though, I got my iPhone and went to the Find My iPhone app. There I had stored my iPad info. My iPhone then located my iPad and made it send out a dinging sound. I followed the sound and found my iPad.

Freaking Amazing!

What is an Ancestor’s FAN Club?

May 12, 2017 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Genealogy

FAN is an acronym. But let me explain how it came up. This week I am in Raleigh, North Carolina learning how to be a better genealogy researcher. This is the third National Genealogical Society conference I’ve attended, and it broadens my skills every year.

One of the best tools I learned to use while attending these conferences is called the FAN Principle. It alone has opened so many doors and knocked down so many genealogical walls. For my readers who don’t understand, a genealogical wall is when you reach a roadblock in your ancestry research.

For example, for years we were unable to find Grandmother Annis Hamrick’s mother’s mother, plus we knew very little about her own mother, as well. Grandma Annis’s mother died when she was only two years old.

This is our only photo of Annis’s mother. She is sitting behind the man in the center, but who are all the other people? Were they family, acquaintances, or neighbors?

Anyway, Annis’s grandmother on her mother’ s side was a roadblock for me. I only broke through that roadblock after meeting some of my DNA cousins from the same lineage. They would make up the “F” in FAN.

What is FAN?

FAN is an acronym for family, associates, and neighbors. It is a tried and true method to help overcome the holes in your research. It can help you break through a brick wall.

I heard it first used by Elizabeth Shown Mills at a genealogy conference. She’s been helping amateur genealogists with everything from writing citations to gathering evidence.

Now I’m using the FAN Principle for William and Mary, the two main characters of my book, by searching for those who lived around them and those who they associated with, such as their friends.

For example, I believe that Mary’s father Jesse and William Andrews may have been friends even before William became involved with Mary. I base this on several instances where the two men’s names are recorded together, such as when they voted one after the other for Florida statehood.

They voted very early in the morning on the day set for the election, the third and fourth people to vote at the courthouse. Since they lived way out from town in the Elizabeth Community, this probably means that they came into town and spent the night there before the election. This is rich information that I’ll use in my book.

By researching these other people, we begin to open new avenues in which to research further. For example, it appears that William and Mary’s daughter Laura married her neighbor George Lightsey. By studying the relationship, we found that the Lightseys and her mother’s family, the Walkers, lived near each other in South Carolina before coming to Florida.

So how do we begin compiling this list of friends, associates, and neighbors? One way is to break it down into three steps.

Three Steps to the FAN Principle

First, look up the family members who lived nearby, in the same town, and in the same county. One way to find them is by using census records. There you can see who lived closest to them. Then try to determine exactly if these neighbors are indeed family or just associates, or did they know each other in other ways. Did they migrate into the area together? Did they live near each other before they moved? Just how closely are they kin? There may be others with the same surname living in the area.

Step Two is to research the family’s associates. Other questions can be asked. Who did they come in contact with? With whom did they serve in times of war? Who worked in their offices or stores. Who did they do business with? Who did they hang out with?

Finally, step three is to check out their neighbors. Again, census records can help identify them. But what did the neighbors do for a living? Did they do the same thing as our ancestor or could they have been business partners? Were there any marriages between their children? Did their children go to school together? As you can tell, there are so many questions to be answered.

This photo is a school in Goodwater, Alabama. Grandmother Annis’s mother’s older siblings may have been in this photo.

In another example, sometimes the answer may be in what cannot be found. I studied Mary’s parents to see who their neighbors were and if there had been any connections between these families. Though Mary’s family had a house full of sons and daughters, as did their closest neighbors, there were no marriages between any of them. From this, I surmise that these houses may have been a long way apart. Maybe Mary’s family lived far away from their neighbors. By the way, though, there were marriages between members of their church.

Mary’s parents Jesse and Elizabeth met and married in South Carolina, long before they moved to Florida. Until now we only had one document that showed that Elizabeth’s last name was Wilson, but that document was written long after she died. Plus the information came from someone proven to be unreliable in her memories.

Just the other day though one of the amateur genealogists discovered while studying the FAN club of the grandfather of Jesse Walker that right next door lived a Wilson. This Wilson is the right age to be the grandfather of Elizabeth Wilson who married Jesse Walker. It is another connection to be studied further.

I’ve also discovered that William Andrews was hired twice by Abram Cabell also of Jefferson County–once as an Assistant Marshall for the 1850 Florida census and again later as the first railroad Depot Agent for Jefferson County. This is another lead to follow.

One must ask a major question. Did the two men know each other before moving to Florida? William was born and raised in the Washington, DC area, but we know very little about his life before he moved to Florida. Was Abram Cabell from there, too? He later became a Congressman from Florida. More leads to follow.

So the FAN Principle is an important method if you find yourself hitting road blocks in your ancestry research. Plus it is so interesting to discover who was important to your ancestor.

Where I’m From

November 29, 2016 by oldageisnotforsissies54 Filed Under: Family Life, Genealogy

Here is a little poem called “Where I’m From”, using some of the results found both through standard genealogical research and DNA. I’ve been tracing my ancestry for over 40 years, and I’m always looking for a way to share what I’ve found.

Where I’m From

I come from pines, small town playgrounds, springs, and sand.

From a Georgia mountain side and a South Carolinian low country river with an Indian name.

From Georgia gold, Colorado gold, and 49ers spread across the Oregon and California trails.

From Confederate privates and a Georgia mill sold before all was lost.

From a Revolutionary, a Loyalist and a Hessian soldier who turned.

From an indentured servant and a colonial Governor.

From a trail into Indian territory and a passel of children stopping to swim in a stream.

I come from a red-headed widow, who fled demanding in-laws, seeking a new beginning in a new state.

From a model A racing from an economic downturn to new land with new crops and opportunity.

I come from a later wave of Jamestown immigrants and a Powhaten squaw who left her people.

From an Old Dominion seventh great grandfather who I share with my husband.

From cattlemen pushing cattle on a trail through recently ceded Indian Territory.

And a family looking for new opportunity in the sandy soils of south Florida.

From three men who stood in line to vote for a new state with a very old name.

From a Ranny, a Geechie, and a Peniopy.

My DNA comes from mostly Ireland, plus Spain and Norway.

From Scotland and a common border with Finland and Russia.

And traces, I recently learned, from North Africa and the Middle East.

I’m a typical American mutt with sandy feet and sunshine on my face.